Stand Out

Stop Guessing, Start Knowing!

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    Sign up for free to verify someone has lived up to the XOXY standard.

  • Background Check & Identity Verification


    Receive your XOXY seal of approval! Includes date-stamped photo confirming no history of felonies or sex offenses.

  • STD Testing & Validation


    HIPAA Compliant and privacy protected STD Testing and Validation

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All this in a one stop mobile app that enhances your safety and security when dating.
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Newly single, Lisa meets Bob through a friend, Alex at a nightclub, Michael at the gym and Renny online. A hectic work schedule limits her time so she chooses Michael. Six months later she dumps him after discovering he has a criminal record and a week later learns through a friend that Bob has an STD. Disillusioned by the hazards of dating, she wishes there was a better way.


Sarah meets Kevin through a friend, Richard in a bar, David online and Jack at a concert. As a credentialed XOXY member, Sarah searches XOXY the day she meets each one and discovers that only Kevin and Jack are also credentialed. She decides to date Jack first and falls in love on the first date. Six months later they are choosing wedding venues.

Did you know?
  • Over $85 million is defrauded annually due to dating scams
  • 1.1 million people in the United States have AIDS, 16% of whom are unaware that they live with the infection
  • 1 in 3 American women will be sexually abused during their lifetime, according to George Mason University
  • 1 in 5 women has been sexually assaulted on college campuses, according to a White House task force

What XOXY is?
  • XOXY provides a personal security credential with no results or personal information in the app (if a person fails they are not in the app-no negative consequences). The credential last for six months.
  • Avoids an awkward conversation in person and online.
  • Affords a free tool to screen whether your potential date has any felonies, sex offenses or an STD and includes a real time photo.
  • STD and Background verification tool that can be integrated with online dating sites
  • Provides a HIPAA compliant, privacy protected and cyber safe method for verification.
Date Smart from the Start